The day he said 'Amma' for the first time, I sat down on the floor and just cried. I had waited two years for that word.
What we were living with
Arjun was our first child. We had waited for him for so long, and when he arrived, we were the happiest people in the world. But by the time he turned two, something felt different — quietly, stubbornly different.
He never pointed at things. When we called his name, he would not turn. He would spend an hour spinning a bottle cap on the floor, watching it with complete focus, as if the world around him did not exist. He did not speak — not a single word — while the children in our building were already stringing sentences together.
My mother-in-law said boys are always slow. Our neighbour said we were being anxious first-time parents. Ramesh told me I was overthinking it. I wanted to believe all of them. But I would lie awake at night, and the worry would not leave.
When we did not know where to turn
We took him to our family doctor, who told us to wait until he was three. We waited. We took him to a paediatrician in Hyderabad who gave us a list of names and said "he might need therapy" — and then our appointment was over. We sat in the parking lot for twenty minutes, holding that list, not knowing what any of it meant.
Nobody sat with us. Nobody said: this is what is happening in your child's mind, and this is what you do next. We felt completely alone.
A mother in Arjun's playgroup — whose son had been going to Meditron — told us to just come in and talk to the doctor before deciding anything.
The first visit
We came in not knowing what to expect. Dr. Sirisha did not put Arjun on a table or hand him tests. She sat on the floor with him and watched him play. She asked us questions — not to judge us, but because she genuinely wanted to understand our child.
At the end of the session, she explained that Arjun was on the autism spectrum. She did not say it like a verdict. She said it like a starting point. "Now we know what we are working with. Now we can build the right plan."
We started speech therapy and occupational therapy that same week.
The journey — month by month
The first month was hard. Arjun would cry through some sessions. We were given home activities and we did them, even on the days we felt defeated.
By the second month, he started making eye contact with his therapist — just for a second at a time, but it was real. By month three, he was pointing at things he wanted. By month five, he said "Amma" while reaching for me.
That was the moment the two years of waiting collapsed into something that felt, for the first time, like hope. He is four and a half now. He has fifteen words. He sits with us at the dinner table. Last week, he laughed at something on television and looked over at us to share it.
That look — that shared moment — is everything.